FOUND! 'Tickle My Fancy' by gleefulmusings. he has some really great Glee fics, and I highly suggest looking through the rest.
I'm also looking for a fic where Harry Potter and Kurt are dating and Harry is very rich and offers to sponser New Directions and it makes Sue very mad and he ends up sponsering
FOUND!!! The Second one is by AquilusNyx on FFN and it is called In Which Wealth is Wanted
Looking for recs where Kurt is with any strong/dominate/dark/intimidating/powerf
Thank you for all your help.